Episode 307: Discover 8 Questions To Ask Yourself If You Are Unhappy In Your Career

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Hi, it’s Pascale, your host. Welcome to episode 307 of The Everyday Life Balance Show. Thank you for tuning in.

Do you feel stuck in a job you do not like to be in? I have been there myself. In this episode, I will share eight powerful questions to improve the quality of your life, help you gain clarity and take steps to find work you are passionate about. 

How does it sound? Exciting! Ok, let’s dive in.

1. Why are you stuck in a job you do not like to be in? Be honest with yourself here. In the past, when I was in a career I no longer wanted to pursue, the main reason was boredom and wanting to do something more meaningful. 

For you, there might be various reasons for this:

• You might be bored, and there is no room for growth and advancement.
• You do not like how your role changed. Or it might be
• You have new aspirations and feel misaligned with your new dreams.
• Too much stress at work could be another reason
• Not jelling with your colleagues or 
• Feeling undervalued. 

Your response to the question "Why are you stuck in a job you don't like?" will influence your future decisions. 

For example, if you have been in the job for only three months, you may wonder if you have given it a fair chance.

If there is no possibility of growth or advancement within the organisation, you might be ready to research other career opportunities. 

In the case of a new aspiration, do you need to learn new skills through additional education and training? 

It is essential to get clear on the why.

2. Next, what career would be a better fit, based on your lifestyle and values? 

This question takes into account your priorities. Do you want to work remotely and have lots of time off?

Do you want to align your ideal work environment and company mission with your values?  

For example, if you have another interest, like starting your own business, you might consider transitioning to part-time work while building your own business. 

3. Now get dreaming with question number three: What are you passionate about?

What lights you up?

How could you integrate your passions and gifts into your career? Consider this possibility to get more job satisfaction. When you are in your zone of genius, how do you feel? Energised,? Focused,? Connected?.

4. Who are you at your best?

Picture yourself at your best. How are you showing up? Do you show up confident, productive and supportive of others? Connect with that version of you.

For example, athletes at their best are in good shape, driven and highly performant. 

5. Money is one of the issues determining whether someone changes career or not. So, the next question is: How can you afford to make a career change?

Do you have a financial safety net to cover the months you will allocate to job search if you decide to quit your current position? Assessing the financial implications of a career change and planning for a transition is crucial, as changing jobs may involve adjustment. My best advice is to get clear on the numbers before leaping!

6. If you are unclear and hesitant, your best option is to seek professional help from a career transition coach or mentor. Do not struggle alone. Sometimes, professional guidance can be valuable in making career-related decisions and managing the emotional aspects of job dissatisfaction. You can contact a career transition coach or mentor to help you make changes. After all, it is a process!

7. Regarding the seventh question, let us dig deeper into how you wish to serve the world. What do you want to offer the marketplace if you feel undervalued in your current job? Answering this question will help you clarify your unique talents and gifts and what problems you can help solve.

8. And lastly, once you have answered all of these questions, your next step is to move into immediate action. What action step can you take today, even a small one, to build a career you are happy with? 

You can identify the small changes or short-term goals you need to manifest a career that fulfils you. Besides, consider the immediate and necessary actions to make your present job more bearable while working toward long-term changes. Keep taking baby steps.

I hope you enjoyed this episode. 

My professional journey has always been to pursue purpose, in other words, to follow my heart. However, it is up to you to use your creative power to manifest the career that would bring you the greatest joy. 

Making the right career choice matters because we spend, on average, a third of our lives working. The figure in Europe is 36.5 years. Following your passion gives work more meaning and joy.

Take the time to reflect on these eight questions, write in a journal, and tune into your heart’s wisdom to get clear on the new path that feels right for you.

Here is a recap of the eight questions to consider if you feel stuck in a job you don’t like:

•   Question #1: Why are you stuck in a job you don't like?
• Question #2: What career would be a better fit, based on your lifestyle and values?  
• Question #3: What are you passionate about?
• Question #4: Who are you at your best?
• Question #5: How can you afford to make a career change?
• Question #6: How can you seek professional help?
• Question #7: What do you want to offer the marketplace if you feel undervalued in your current job?
• Question #8: What action step can you take today, even a small one, to build a career you are happy with?  

I look forward to connecting with you next Monday. In the next episode, I will cover part 2 of this series on being unhappy in your career. Until then, have a fantastic week, take good care and lots of love and light.